Should I Use Botox?

Dear Momofuku,
I'm a 55-year-old woman, fairly attractive, and I'm considering Botox. Should I? From reading your entries, I know you can't slow the hands of time...but maybe just to feel better?
--Questioning

Dear Questioning,
This might be the most difficult question ever posed on these pages, in that it gets to the heart of what Ando called the Fundamental Misunderstanding of Humanity -- believing we can escape our shame by achieving desire upon desire. I think he would tell you to listen to what the voice in your head is saying about yourself, why it is telling you to use Botox. Write it down. Then, see how you feel. If you make a decision, email it and I'll post the follow-up.