Should I Take a Chance?

Dear Momofuku,
I work with a woman that I am attracted to, and sometimes I feel that she is attracted to me as well. Should I take a chance and just ask?
-- Fence Sitter

Dear FS,
Again, I think this saying of Momofuku Ando applies: "If you act, you risk failure. If you don't act, you risk wasting time." I think he believed that wasting time was worse than failing. Yeah, ask.